Thoughts and Life


I believe that the thoughts we generate impact our life greatly.  If we are able to change our thoughts, redirect them and catch our negative cycles of thinking, we can then change our life and our impact on the world.  A thought is the seed of an action/deed, if we can stop the wrong seeds from being sown, we can live happily and have the courage to always do the right thing.  If we learn to realign and change our thoughts  when we have been hurt to something more positive, we grow stronger, more capable and we become stable with a quiet confidence that we can handle anything. As we gain small successes in managing our thoughts, we are actually increasing our ability to not get hurt/disturbed/distracted in the first place, therefore we don’t need recovery time from a difficult situation.  In changing our reaction we allow new habits to be formed, such as:- not to take sorrow, not to give sorrow, always being honest, truthful, clear , sincere, confident but not arrogant, respectful to myself and others, aware of my impact on others and the world.  Within all of this I grow my ability to be humble and firm in a gently assertive way.

These changes allow me to live in a more peaceful and content way.  In harmony with myself, others and the world around me.  Nothing will phase me as I have gained the habit of changing how I react and I now choose to respond.  I might respond  with a comment or better still I may remain silent and my mind will be totally stable.    I will have a quiet confidence that I can handle it all, no matter what.  Obviously, this is not an over night process, but small daily steps will lead to big personal wins – eventually.   Success is only possible if I try to better myself and I am prepared to see my own faults.   I can only change myself I can not change another.

A life of hardship will make us wise and mature if we want it to!   When diamonds are mined, they initially come out with rough edges and  it is only when they are polished do they then shine.  So becoming a shining diamond with the lessons of life.


I created this as a hobby blog to share thoughts, inspirations, to keep myself motivated and to keep making myself a better person.   I hope that these post will inspire and motivate you also.  – see ‘About’ page for more info.

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33 thoughts on “Thoughts and Life

  1. I completely agree with your points, our thought has a great impact on our life it could make us calm and anxious as well. Now it depends how a person manage his/her thought. I will add that overthinking is like a poison.
    Oh yes I want to nominate you for The Blogger Recognition Award! I hope you will accept it 🙂

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    1. Dear Aki, Thanks for your comments and reading the blog. Oh yeah overthinking most definitely poison.

      I am so new to blogging can you advise me – how I accept the ward and what the award is for, and the rules. I am getting a bit confused with the awards. I would love to accept it, will there be a time limit on it ? It is just I am bit busy from tomorrow.

      Do let me know. Thanks bella

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      1. Dear Ari, I know I said I would accept. I truly appreciate the thought and I do accept with all my heart. However, I struggle to chose between who to nominate – I am really sorry. My world just turned upside down today – nothing scary but, it might mean I might be blogging so often.
        Very sorry to decline, but I just dont think I can chose from all the great bloggers out there. So sorry. Bella

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      2. Aw don’t be sorry. It is just a healthy activity. I have nominated all bloggers who are working hard to make their blogs amazing.
        Don’t be afraid of little things:) just enjoy the life.
        It’s okay if you rejected the award! Don’t be sorry.

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