Motivation, Inspiration & Perspective

Sometimes life can knock you out for six.  Life just doesn’t go to plan, even though you did your affirmations, your gratitude and your manifestation, your law of attraction and mindfulness.  What do we do  when we feel like it is all hard work, we feel like it is not going to get easier, we feel like giving up,  we feel that all our efforts are not coming to life, we feel down in the dumps and just want go back to bed and curl up?

Remember : “ALWAYS SEE BENEFIT IN EVERYTHING”.   Many be there is hidden benefit in  not getting the job, the interview, the contract, the etc.  May be it is not the right time, may be you are actually meant to achieve more than the boundaries of that job or that whatever.

No matter what, believe there is good in everything. Get out of bed, get in to gear, exercise, listen to music, do something motivational, meditate,  read a book, work towards to your goals even if you feel you have failed and want to give up.  Just keep at it, it will be worth it.

There is no such thing as Failure, just an understanding of how not to do something, otherwise known as Wisdom!  At least you are trying.   Too many people QUIT just before they are about to succeed. Change your perspective on failure, you have just learnt another way of how  not to do something.  It was not meant to be, I may not be able to see the blessing in  its disguise today, but I know it is there because I have experience it before.  Keep at it.

Success, is different for all of us, so be your true unique self and stop comparing yourself to another.  You are unique and therefore your success is unique to you.

STOP EXPECTING anything from anyone, because their own negativeness will stop them from being truly happy for you.  Unless, they are truly altruistic, magnanimous, solid in their own self esteem then they will be sincere and helpful  towards you.

So what if they don’t like you. Let them have their opinion.  YOU don’t have to agree! You know you are good. Stop knocking yourself down.

NOT getting what you want MAY BE the BEST thing for you, it is a blessing in disguise.  Trust, the hope , the wish, the manifestation, the law of attraction,  your pure hope, your pure faith, the steps you  have taken and are taking, are the steps are in the right direction. So, you did not achieve success today, it is okay, it was not meant to be.  Learn the lesson to be  learned if it is visible.  Full stop this particular chapter, and start a new chapter with a new focus and direction. Learn at every step.  There will always be more failure than success, because we have to learn how not to do it, how to be humble, how to be resilient ,  how to pick ourselves up of the floor.  It is all good learning, with out it how can we become wise, knowledgeable, self assured, trust in our self and the universe,have  faith in ourselves and the divine. There is nothing more grounding and self empowering than picking yourself up and carrying on and got giving up.   Not getting what you want is a blessing, I will see the blessing later,  I will see it.  Have the faith!   Edison failed 10,000 before he invented electricity /light bulb.

Never stop trying.  Never give up.  Be your own power house.  Keep trying.  Trust & Faith THERE IS GOOD IN EVERYTHING.    Don’t let yourself down, because you only have YOU and the Divine,  no-one else can be there for you because  everyone has their own life to sort out!   You have to be your own motivator, your own coach, your own spiritual guide,  your own inspiration,  your own rock, because when you fall only the divine and yourself will pick you up.  Keep at it, don’t give up.  You can do it, success is your birth right.  There is a blessing in not getting something today, there is and you know it, because you have been here before and moved on from this place before- successfully.    You can do it.

Good  Daily habits to keep yourself motivated always

  1.  Early to bed Early to rise makes you  healthy wealthy and wise.
  2.  Start your day with an intention,  Meditation,  refocus
  3. Journal
  4.  Physical exercise
  5. Pep talk before you start the day.

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31 thoughts on “Motivation, Inspiration & Perspective

    1. Hey, thanks for the nomination and a TRULY , SINCERELY appreciate it. I still have another another award pending. Is it okay if I decline because my world has just turned upside down – What I was hoping to start something in August, that has just pushed way forward to next week and I am just not ready for it. With out going into my life story. I am not even sure I am going to be able to blog as frequently as I have been doing. I really feel bad for declining. Also it is so hard to chose from all the great blogger out there. I was naive when I accepted other awards – So I am being a bit bold and brave – and decline this. I am very sorry – but totally appreciate the sentiment in wish you nominate me. I just don’t think I can find 15 nominees and honestly I really don’t think I am going to be blogging so often from next week. My world just went a bit crazy – potentially a nice crazy – but a crazy I am not ready for. Sorry I hope you understand. Regards Bella

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      1. Hi Bella, no worries or need to apologise. Not expecting anything in return at all. Should have taken that line out really about the reposts. Always be bold, especially with the week ahead. All the best and enjoy it! All the best, Amanda

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  1. You’re right. I sometimes have been very disappointed when plans and goals didn’t work out, but almost always I eventually saw the reason for it, and saw that Divine Wisdom was there all along, giving me something even better suited to my needs. So now I don’t get as attached to my goals — I always try to leave room for God to work those Divine wonders!

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    1. I am glad you liked it, and found it a pick me up, and of course more than happy for you to reblog, very honored. This post was supposed to be 2 different things, before it ended up being this post – and it rather from the heart. I am glad you liked it

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  2. way to be consistent with posting Bella, very impressed:) great motivational post and actionable ideas at the end are always great. Exercising is a huge common habit of successful people. I love to run, but haven’t been consistent with that part of my life so need to get back into it, nice post again. and oh, it’s actually Edison not Emerson who failed 10,000 times, was on my mind sorry:/

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    1. Oh yeah, Edison – you are right, I will correct, thank you for pointing the error out and I don’t mind, important to be accurate. I think i was reading both edison and emerson and got confused.

      Me consistent – having an extremely bad week!!!! Haven’t posted as much as i wanted , or any Social media, really bad week. But thanks for your comments Vincent, always appreciated. I hope all has settled down with you, it seemed you a where having a bit of week too.

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      1. you have been consistent though, you may miss a day, but you’re consistent:)
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        Yea I have, but that’s because I’ve been trying to write on LinkedIn more so I’ve missed a few days writing posts for my blog.

        You said you were having an extremely bad week so I hope it gets better for you Bella

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          1. No, LinkedIn is nothing like wordpress. Articles on LinkedIn need to be at least over 700 words, fact heavy and usually about topics like marketing to technology so my style of writing is different on there than on wordpress.

            Short written posts and poems wouldn’t do well on there, but I really enjoy the idea of marketing and I know enough from reading to talk about it so LinkedIn is a perfect place to write about that topic

            the post I wrote on there recently did very well and the people who read LinkedIn posts are very professional, which I like. 40% of people who read LinkedIn articles are in manager positions and above which is why.

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    1. Monica, glad you liked the post. Happy you have favourite part of it. Well, our thoughts impact our feelings, that includes how we talk to ourselves. Affirmations are like a pep talk. Go girl, have a great day and weekend.

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