We all have pain in our life, we all know we should forgive and let go. We don’t want to forgive because if we forgive they will do it again.
Karmic Connection: Did you know when you hold onto pain you create a negative karmic bondage with that person and the pain becomes a vicious circle.
Stop repeating the hurt: Once a person has hurt us once and moved on with their life – how many times do we hurt ourselves after the event? Now, is that an effective use of our precious life? Do we love to be hurt constantly after the event. Sure wrong was done, but it happened yesterday, last week, last month, last year , 20 years ago. The one who hurt us – did their hurt and moved on. And I remain stuck. I not living in the present, not creating a new life, happy, meaningful, successful life. I am stuck in the past – awaiting for physical ill health, emotional stress and even depression. I know – I know when we have been hurt! it is not easy. Yet holding onto the pain is keeping the hurt alive , and stopping us from living today. It has gone , It happened, Let go , Let go, Let go and Live. Just grow strong, resilient not to be phased again by these silly insensitive acts. Be strong and whatever they say or do – it don’t matter, I have the supreme if I believe, or I have my own internal strength, or I have both.
So, today I was thinking to myself . Well, actually forgiving is a no-brainer! Why on earth do I want to stay in pain? Forgiving doesn’t mean what they did was right. But forgiving is necessary for me to live, and reduce the karmic bondage. Also, the law of Karma is taking note – let it do it’s job and you live your life. But, never curse a person by saying Karma will catch up with them either -as this become a negative Karmic account on your.
So Why Forgive?- Well, why not ? Or are you happy to remain in pain your entire life. To become riddled with physical and emotional health issues?
There many who have experience atrocities in their life. Most of them have Forgiven. Why? So that they can enjoy the rest of their life. Let us read a few of their wise words. We all know their stories (if not google their stories). If they can say this after what they have gone through, the I have to I say to myself ; come on get forgiving, it is a no-brainer, do I want to live a full happy successful life?
I don’t think of all the misery, but of all the beauty that still remains. – Anne Frank
When we are no longer able to change a situation – we are challenged to change ourselves. – Victor E Frankl
No one has the right to do wrong, not even if a wrong has been done to them. – Victor E Frankl
As I walked out the door towards the gate that would lead to my freedom, I knew if I didn’t leave my bitterness and hatred behind I’d still be in Prison. –Nelson Mandela.
Let us be inspired to change our life, to be happy, to be successful, to live our dreams, to let go , let go, to forgive, to have faith in myself that I can handle it all. I am a powerful soul, a royal soul, a forgiving soul. I am wise and I understand why I should forgive , let go and know in time I will forget. I will learn the lesson that makes me wise, keeps me safe and makes me strong to manage whatever might come my way.
I forgive, I let go – I live – I trust – I shine. I can handle it all. I will always shine the best version of me to myself and the world no matter what hurt I have been subjected to, for I am a good soul and I will shine bright.
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