Patience, Faith & Detachment.

Patience, Faith & Detachment.

I have seen patience used as a way to create space and clarity before a decision is taken. Effectively a decision is delayed.   We are often made to feel by others or even our-self that we MUST make the decision right now, immediately.  But, I see that actually you can in most cases delay a decision, or even change your mind after a decision is made.

I really, believe that where one can one should sit on a decision, meditate, and ask The Divine for clarity.  Because, if we take a decision because we feel we must immediately, we often are not thinking clearly.   I think to wait, create space, and peace allows us to have clarity, then we can use wisdom, understanding and silence to guide us in taking the right decision.    I believe Patience requires an element of faith and detachment. It requires us to be constantly learning from life and all the lesson and practising patience.  Then, no matter how big the life lesson, the earthquake of the life test is, you will sail through it with minimal upset, anger, frustration and drama.


I believe to practise Patience you need

  • faith,
  • detachment,
  • maturity,
  • wisdom,
  • to be constant,
  • to be centred,
  • to be stable,
  • to be calm,
  • to be tolerant,
  • to be farsighted,
  • to be brave,
  • to be light,
  • to be understanding,
  • to be experienced,
  • to be fearless
  • and extremely connected with yourself and The Divine.

You need to know you and your automatic reactions,

  • you need to know if you make good decision or not,
  • you need to know how to put a break on making decision,
  • and you need to learn with each experience that life gives you.

Patience is a beautiful quality, value, and virtue.  If you try and practice it in every situation in life, you will become skilled and you will cringe why was I so impatience before.  The more patient you become, life becomes easy,  you start glide through life calmly and may be when that life tsunami hits, you might get a tiny bit shaken up, but it won’t last as long as before and you won’t be a wreck like before. 

So, let us try  to have the intention/create the habit of Patience, and long side patience let us have the faith and the detachment to allow us to practise patience.

Life is beautiful even in the mess.  Our life can be designed and sculpted by us.  If we practice patience we make our life beautiful and graceful, we sculpt our life and our-self to be beautiful characters with charm and grace, like a beautiful white Swan gliding on a lake.  Yes that can be us. It can be.  © 2017 thoughtsnlifeblog.

I have seen it in action and I have tired it myself, and I believe it is possible and it will make a massive difference in our lives.  Will you give it a try ? Do comment below.

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  1. Reblogged this on Now I'm Found and commented:

    I completely agree. I have been noticing myself on how I make decisions.. somehow I rely more on my gut feelings and think that prompt decisions are better. Thanks to your post, now I can practice holding it and wait for the peace and wisdom to come in, before making a decision.

    Thank you!

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