Hi Friends, I am blogging on a non blog day to share with you a passage from a book I am currently reading. Oh this book is so profound I will have to do a review, each line is like gold. But, I leave you with these paragraphs for now…
But nobody abuses us more than we abuse ourselves, and it is the Judge, the Victim, and the belief system that make us do this. True, we find people who say their husband or wife, or mother or father, abused them, but you know that we abuse ourselves much more than that. The way we judge ourselves is the worst judge that ever existed. If we make a mistake in front of people, we try to deny the mistake and cover it up.
In your whole life nobody has ever abused you more than you have abused yourself. And the limit of your self-abuse is exactly the limit that you will tolerate from someone else. If someone abuses you a little more than you abuse yourself, you will probably walk away from that person. But if someone abuses you a little less than you abuse yourself, you will probably stay in the relationship and tolerate it endlessly.
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Thank you for the reading tip! sounds very intersting 🙂
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Omg i can’t tell you how brilliant, mind blowing, and profound. Well, i am aware of the concepts, but never read in this way before and in what i term a main stream book. I am loving it so far and i definately think it is a life changer book.
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Checked it out, I ll get a copy☺️☺️ sounds very encouraging and liberating🙌🏽
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It is very spiritual and quite profound.. but i love this kinda book
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I agree with you Bella. It is a great book. 🌼🌼🌼
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Hi Brigid, sounds like you have read it. I am not a reader and i am trying to read more. I have been meaning to read this over 3 years ago.. finally getting round to it. Hope you are well. Hugs. Regards bella
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I read a lot now Bella with being on Goodreads. I review all the books I read and it all comes back to me in other ways. 🌼🌼🌼
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What is goodreads ? You can see my state of cluelessness
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It is a reading community that has lots of groups within it. It also promotes authors. It has links to Amazon.
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Okay thanks
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Such a wonderful book and author!
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HI Roda sounds like you have read it. I am loving it so far. Regards bella
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Yes! The Mastery of Love is wonderful as well!
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