I wrote a post a while back, called A Hater is going to hate you regardless”, click here to read
The thing is life can change and things can improve.
But one must be forever wise and experienced and courageous in life.
Coming back to the fact things change in life. We can assist that change with our thinking and vibrations.
There are a few universal truths and laws that life holds
- This too shall pass
- Let go of things
- Always give good wishes to everyone including those that don’t like you.
When we practise 2 and 3. For example
The universe gives you what you most think about.
When we practise 2 and 3 like an affirmation, for example
I let go of you and all you have done. I wish you wisdom and maturity. I wish you a good set of friends that make you see. I let go of you.
There is a fundamental shift in our vibration.
When we write the above ” I let go…” as an affirmation, 21 times and 3 times a day for months. We send out a positive vibration to the universe. And the universe listens. You also rewire your thinking. And things change inside of you.
But. Still it seems
But still it seems you will have to endure this until you die. But, never give up hope or affirming a positive out come because it makes a difference. It really does. Because you now accept life, but, you don’t let pain rule you anymore. That release frees you.
Finally, Svengali effect
The person who has made your life rotten.
Well, how do I say this. When you practise 2 and 3, you begin to see clearly. That the person giving you pain, is under some svengali effect. That might be because a person in their life in influenceing them. Or their own personal pain, negativity, laziness etc is creating the svengali effect.
Until or unless that person realises what is going on, the svengali effect continues.
All this too shall pass
Sometimes the svengali effect may release itself.
And your relationship with that person improves, as if it was all a bad dream, a figment of imagination.
However, old habits die hard. Always be discerning and keep your eyes wide open. Because old habits die hard.
This is not to say the person hasn’t changed. They have. But, it will be visible to you the extent of their change, or if at all they are deceiving you in someway.
Always keep a healthy distance, always see and don’t be naive. But have good wishes that things improve and stay well. But for your protection don’t be naive, keep your eyes, ears and senses clear that you can see the reality. And if you see games, then send out more positive vibrations and instill a little space.
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