
We often react when people speak to us badly. Then may be after a few minutes or hours we don’t feel nice about it.
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A Fire-person doesn’t put out the fire with more fire. But they use water, foam, sand, or something that calms the situation down.
When I am full of self respect, it is easy for me to step away from a situation. It is not a defeat. It is maturity, wisdom to step away and be humble. Do Not let pain in your heart, but to step away.
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I am a master of life if I step away and don’t get impacted.
When it gets too much I go into silent mode. I don’t talk. I simply ask for help.
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Yes to ask for help is valuable. Thank you for sharing.
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That’s a good idea, to write all out all the rage until you get rid of it and tire yourself out. I am trying to learn to sleep on things too. Especially when sending emails. Don’t ever send an email without sleeping on it. Trust me. 👀
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Thank you
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This is a really good point. I am someone who is horrible about picking battles and I always fight and regret it later. I need to be better about what hill I choose to die. I am trying to bring more peace into my life.
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Well done for recognising and wish you all the success with this change. You will achieve it. First sure.
I tend to stay quiet in the heat of the situation. And if later I can drop seeds of thoughts to help impact a change, I do. But there are some situations where I stay quiet, journal,and do my best to forget and move on. I end up journaling a lot, and all those pages end up in the shredder after I have figured out what I need to do to keep my peace.
There is this saying, “pick your battles”. But sometimes I think the best thing is to be quiet in some situation and with good wishes, things can change. I have experience.
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I tend to stay quiet in the heat of the situation. And if later I can drop seeds of thoughts to help impact a change, YES! WE ARE TWINS
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Lol. Hello twin 😊
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