We often react when people speak to us badly. Then may be after a few minutes or hours we don’t feel nice about it.
A Fire-person doesn’t put out the fire with more fire. But they use water, foam, sand, or something that calms the situation down.
When I am full of self respect, it is easy for me to step away from a situation. It is not a defeat. It is maturity, wisdom to step away and be humble. Do Not let pain in your heart, but to step away.
I am a master of life if I step away and don’t get impacted.