Introversion, inner contemplation, leads to a calm response.
The power of silence. The power of solitude. The power of solution. Solutions can only be found when the mind is silent and ready to hear and see the answer. When we force an answer, that answer will always be wrong, because it is forced.
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The power of silence and solitude leads to solutions. A quiet mind can hear the voice of the Universe, God and even your inner voice. A cluttered mind can’t hear, it can’t reason, and it can’t think. That is why silence, peace and solitude are necessary. Slow, patient and deliberate contemplation is required. Not a hurried, reactive, response. Quiet, silence, deliberate and slow thinking is required for finding the best solutions. When you make a good a decision, it leads a happy and peaceful life and no repercussion. But a rushed decisions always leads to more corrections and more stress. So take it slowly, quietly, peacefully, in silence and solitude.
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I absolutely loved this post!!! Truly. Every single line you wrote and the quote itself. Any rushed forced choice or decision is a recipe for future suffering big or small. It is this lifetime’s work to cultivate our relation to our inner guidance to become skilled at listening and following it. Again I loved reading your post multiple times, it is perfect :)))
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I like how you say “It is this lifetime’s work to cultivate our relation to our inner guidance to become skilled at listening and following it..”. Certiainly is a lifetime’s work, refining with each implementation
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I am glad 🙂 That is what I found for myself, it is just ongoing practice.
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Thank you always for your beautiful comments
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You are very welcome, my pleasure truly my friend.
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I enjoy my solitude. It brings a smile to my face.
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Me too..😊😊
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This is very good advice, Bella. I can be very impulsive, especially when I get upset about something.
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Thank you. 😊😉
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I think we can all be impulsive sometimes. And it can go wrong as we all know. When I am aware I do these things, and consciously stop myself and become silent and just step back, the sting in the situation disappears. Or the pressure I feel inside just goes away and things don’t spiral out if control.
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